
This is a very subjective and personal post. It's been inspired by a person who I have never met, but should in theory have a lot in common with. We are, after all, both graduates of the same university where we did the same degree, once held posts in the same university society, had I suspect similar expectations of postgraduate life, and in principle at least have a similar dilemma in our personal lives. However, I found so much of the following book so distasteful, that after ruminating on the topics emcompassed for some while I felt compelled to write ...